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Friday 30 March 2018

9 Things To Do in Major Career Crisis And To Change Career


When your career is in the dumps, the typical advice is, “Don’t worry and stay positive.”

While this idea looks nice on paper it’s not going to do much when you have bills to pay, mouths to feed and your life’s purpose seems partly lost.


Hitting a major career crisis is messed up. Standing still and hoping that everything will be okay will get you nowhere. You’re in control and you’re going to need all the energy you have to get through it.

These are the 9 things I’ve learned to do in a career crisis:

1. Don't Blame, Analyze the Situation
Blaming the company, senior leaders, the strategy or any other lame excuse won’t achieve anything. You’re in this career crisis mostly because of your own actions. In my case, I stayed in my current career too long because I was having fun and loved the people I was working with.


I knew it was time to move on six months ago and I ignored the warning signs – that’s a failure on my part right there. I had two choices: blame the company or pull my socks up and move on. I chose the latter. The blame game gets you nowhere. If you hate your current career, then leave.

“Don't Blame and accept what’s happening is your fault. Only you can change your career situation”

2. No one is going to save you – save yourself.
No one is saving you. That career you’ve worked hard for may be in ruins and only you can fix it. In my situation, I found 90% of those around me only wanted to save themselves. No point dwelling on this fact it’s just the reality of these career situations.


Again, we can be bitter and pissed off or accept that it’s in our human nature to save ourselves first. Waiting around and hoping for a lifeline will push you further into despair.

“The moment you realize that you are responsible for everything that happens in your career is the moment everything changes”

3. The 10% that do want to help.
The good news: there will always be 10% of those around you who do want to help. You must do the following:
– Worship these kind people
– Show your gratitude every time (I literally do it in every email and phone call)
– Follow up with them
– Let them know you will be there for them when they need the same help


It’s this network of people that you should focus on. Every conversation I’ve had and every favor that’s been done has been met with a promise of returning the lifeline that has been given. I’ve told them my gratitude over and over, so they understand how important its been.

I’ve written customized emails and text messages to express my gratitude. NEVER TAKE THE 10% THAT WANT TO HELP YOU FOR GRANTED! These kind people owe you nothing. Remember that.


4. Back to old success habits
There were habits that made you successful before that you’ve stopped doing. What were they?

When my recent career crisis hit me like a brick in the face, I went back to my 2011 survival mode – only this time I was prepared.


I’ve put the Tony Robbins tapes back in repeat mode. The tapes helped me before and they can help again. The same is true for you. You’ve had success habits before that have got you out of a rough patch. In times of crisis, using them again can be very helpful.
5. In a crisis, there is opportunity.
A career crisis can often be a brilliant opportunity in disguise. We get stuck with our habits and being comfortable. Having to deal with a career crisis can force you to take action and execute.


Changes in company structures and people within a business may force you into a career crisis but it can also be filled with luscious blue sky. People moving around means that you could move up or even to an opportunity that is more aligned with your passion.

Don’t see a crisis as a bad thing; use it to propel your career forward.

This shift in thinking alone can change your work life entirely. This career crisis can become the foundation of all the success that followed.

6. Dust off your address book.
Metaphorically of course because none of us carry around little books with names and phone numbers anymore. Start ringing everyone you know and telling them that you are open to new career opportunities. Keep the tone positive and avoid talking down your current company.


Reconnect with literally anyone you know. The next opportunity could come from the strangest of places. Your network can help during these moments of disaster but you have to put in the work and call people. Again, sitting around feeling sorry for yourself will get you nowhere.

7. Never expect immediate results.
From the moment you decide to change up your career, it’s probably going to take 3-6 months minimum. Patience is key. Nothing in your career that’s worth it will happen overnight.


I know I’m telling you to suck eggs but it’s advice you must hear. I’m sucking eggs right now as I give you the advice haha.

8. Focus on your Health & Maintain positive habits
To be able to put up with so much negativity, you’re going to require excess energy.


– Quit TV as it won’t help you
– Visit an Onsen or have a massage
– Exercise three times a week
– Drink plenty of water
– Sleep a minimum of 8 hours
– Listen to positive podcasts such (Tim Ferriss and Tony Robbins are good)


Your habits during a career crisis will help guide you back to the top again. This list above is what I’m focusing on every day currently and it helps a lot.

“Energy during a career crisis is everything”

9. Don’t give up.
This whole career crisis is going to be filled with failure, rejection and a ton of negativity. Don’t let all this negative energy make you give up.


Your ultimate success in your career will come from this less than ideal situation later on. One day you’ll look back on this career crisis as a blessing in disguise. This crisis will set you on the right path and help you to re-evaluate everything.

Back your own boldness and put your fist in the air.
Charge through the almighty darkness with a smile.
Never. Ever. Give. Up.

Source : www.ddicted2success.com

Thursday 29 March 2018

The Only Way to Be Successful Is to Do What Successful People Do


If you want to be successful than you should follow successful people. Think and do like a successful man. Association can make a big diffrence in your life.
 Here is four way most often lead to success :

1. Have Big Dream and Clear Vision
Great visionaries like Walt Disney emphasized “If you can dream it, you can do it.” 
In order to make your dreams and visions a reality, you need to know concisely where you are going.The average person doesn’t think long term. They rarely think further than a few weeks or months ahead, and have this illusion that everything somehow will ‘end up being ok’.


Successful entrepreneurs are not concerned with immediate or short term indulgence. Instead, they have clear and concise visions for where they want to be 1, 5, 10, even 20 years from now. That vision guides their decisions and their daily activities.Anything or anyone that steers them away from achieving those visions and goals is to be avoided. 


2. Be Committed
Successful people all do two things without fail: They start and they continue. Both are facets of committing to success. How could any successful person become so if they did not start the journey? All great success stories begin with a dream that was acted on.


For these people, it didn’t matter if all the answers were known, all the resources secured, or the timing just right. People who are successful now at some point began. Whatever it is that you’re waiting for, get over it. The only way you can reach success is to begin.

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3. Act Confidently
There is probably nothing more powerful to kick-start success than practicing confidence. Think of any successful person and see their confidence to do work. confident people know how to handle those moments and use their nervous energy to their benefit.


Everyone knows that competence is essential to workplace success, professional achievement and personal satisfaction. But without confidence, competence will only take you so far. And unfortunately, too many perfectly capable leaders lack confidence. An aura of confidence can attract positive attention and open up new opportunities.

4. Help Others to Achieve
All successful people are focused on others. That’s because a person can’t rise to success without the help of other people. The late, Zig Ziglar had a popular saying:  “You can have everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”


Brian Tracy has said, “Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ‘What’s in it for me?’As you help others, you increase your credibility as a caring person and someone who can make a difference in the lives of others.



Wednesday 28 March 2018

The World is Reflection of Your Thoghts


“The world is your mirror and your mind is a magnet. What you perceive in this world is largely a reflection of your own attitudes and beliefs.” ~ Michael LeBeuf


A person asked a question to a Wise Old Man, "My workers are not true to me. My children, my wife and the entire world is very selfish. No body is correct"

The Wise Old Man smiled and told a story:

In one small village there was a room with 1000 mirrors. One small girl used to go inside and play.! Seeing thousands of children around her she was joyful. She would clap her hands and all the 1000 children would clap back at her. She considered this place as the world's happiest n beautiful place and would visit often. This same place was once visited by a sad n a depressed person. He saw around him thousands of angry men staring at him. He got scared and raised his hands to hit them and in return 1000 hands lifted to hit him back. He thought... this is the worst place in the world and left that place.


Like This world is also a room with thousands mirrors around you... What we let out of us is what the universe will give back to us. This world is like Heaven Or Hell. It's up to us what we make out of it..." said the Wise Old Man. As You Sow you will reap.
Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words. Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions. Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character. Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny.


Tuesday 27 March 2018

Top 10 Spring Season Destinations in India


Summer, winter, and fall may have their fans, but spring is clearly the most lovable of the four seasons. Spring – the season that lies on the brink of winter and summer, is one of those times in a year when a vacation is practically calling out to us. With the winter just shedding its coat and the pleasant weather making its way to the country, it is an ideal time to plan a getaway. For beach lovers, there are destinations like Goa and Kovalam, and for adventure enthusiasts, Coorg and Munnar are ideal escapes. With so many options to retort to, we’ve listed a few places to visit during spring break in India.
1. Kumaon, Uttarakhand


Uttarakhand, a gorgeous state covered with the Himalayan mountain ranges on the Northern side is a land of sublime natural beauty and serene spirituality. During spring, this state organizes ‘Uttarakhand Spring Bird Festival’, which showcases the beauty of myriad bird species across 25 birding destinations within the state. Attend the festival from 10th to 12th February 2017 at the Nandhaur Wildlife Sactuary (Kumaon).

2. Srinagar, Jammu & Kashmir


Spring is all about flowers, colours and appreciating nature! And Srinagar is a perfect example of nature being at its best during this season. With some of the most beautiful Mughal gardens in India, a trip to Srinagar is incomplete without visiting these gardens. So don’t forget to take a stroll in the Shalimar Bagh and Nishant Garden, two of the most beautiful and popular gardens in Srinagar.


3. Coorg, Karnataka


Nestled in the lap of raw natural beauty, Coorg is the coffee hub of India. During the period of March to May, the valleys of Coorg transform into a magical land. The view of tea and spice plantations blooming and fragrance of snow white coffee filling the air is mesmerising. This is also a place for trekking for the beginners. So you can head here to soak in the natural beauty or set on an adventure trail.

4. Darjeeling, West Bengal


Spending spring in the ‘Queen of Hills’ is as exciting as it sounds! The flora and fauna of Darjeeling comes to life during this season, and the view of tea plantations is a different experience in itself. For all those who are looking for solace and some inspiration to start with a book, can head to Darjeeling.

5. Ranthambore, Rajasthan


Let’s go tiger spotting into the wild! Located near the town of Sawai Madhopur in Rajasthan, Ranthambore National Park is one of the renowned wildlife reserves in India. If you are a wildlife photographer or an adventure seeker, you can head to Ranthambore to catch a glimpse of tigers and other wildlife animals.

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6. Munnar, Kerala


If you couldn’t take a break from the city life in winters, spring is the perfect time to escape the life’s monotony and take a trip to Munnar. Take a walk through the aromatic tea gardens,majestic waterfalls and winding undulating paths, and you will have a delightful time in the overwhelming beauty of this hill station.

7. Goa


Considered as the traveller’s hub throughout the year, there’s no perfect time to be in Goa, but you can consider visiting it in spring. This is the time when Goa is not much crowded and you get to explore the beaches, forts and churches more comfortably. Also, during this season the booze, shopping and hotel stay is much cheaper in Goa.

8. Kovalam, Kerala


Once a calm fishing village, Kovalam is now a major tourist resort in Kerala. With the shallow waters, pristine beaches and white sand, this beach town makes for an ideal destination during spring. Here you can indulge in water sports and recreational activities, or spend time lazing at the beach.



9. Vrindavan, Uttar Pradesh


Celebrating the Indian festival Holi in Vrindavan is once in a lifetime opportunity. The celebrations start here 40 days before the festival and the entire town is decorated beautifully with flowers and lights. So head to Vrindavan to join in the Holi fervor.

10. Kodaikanal, Tamil Nadu


This is the perfect time to be Kodaikanal! There’s a slight fog looming in the morning and evenings, thus making the hill station even more beautiful. If you are a sleepy traveller and want to spend your spring break at a laid back hill station, Kodaikanal is a destination to consider.